Confused !!!!

After a long time I felt like writing, Don't know why,So far I thought my life was cool, and going fine, but after a long time I realised its not the way I am thinking, I feel as I am back to square one.There was time when I had big dreams and wanted those dreams to come true then realisedthey to big for me...!

Don't know what I want to write and what I am writing I am confused. I have to get out of thisconfusion, So trying to jot down what is there in my mind.

People say as time goes by human relations become stronger. Even I was agreeing to that.But is it the fact? Coz I have seen people those who stay together for years happily and one fine day something goes wrong and their long lasting relationship is in danger. Who is responsible forthis the people themselves or someone else or may be none of these.

So, amount of time spent for years together binds two people together or its the understanding,trust what is it. And if you say the trust and understanding is the reason to keep them togetherfor years then why sometimes their long term relation is in trouble.
We might say we have understanding and trust between us but what happen to that at some instanceswhen it is needed. Where all the experience of life goes at that time.

When two people come together its not only them who are affected by their decisions their near and dear onesare also affected. You must have seen many people saying " Its between him and me, Please do notinterfere" How can you say this, when you are also a part of a community. This shows your selfish.I know many people will not agree with this. Coz now we believe in living independent life style.

A son after living for 24 years with his parents feels that he should live a independent lifewith his wife. So you will say what is wrong in this, there is nothing wrong in it.Its a very good thought. But can't he live with his parents and led a independent life?
The time when your parents need you. Your not there with them. They need emotional supportand not your financial support at that stage. This was just an example of a relationship whichwe never understand.

After reading the post you might feel I started with something and reached some where else......
This post is not complete ....................Lets see when I can complete it.................Will I ever be able to complete it !